chrissyD
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Well I gotta say, I've shared alot of the "relationships are pointless" type of mentalities as well before I got into one. I would have to say that I was exactly like Cuboris before I found my girl. All of my friends got in short little ******** relationships, that were really just the guy wanting to get in the girl's pants, and the girl using the guy for money and social status. It was just a stupid game. And that's why I wanted nothing to do with it. But then I found Brianna. She's not like most girl's at my school. She actually LIKES me. And I am not the type of guy to chase a woman for her body. And that is why we have been together for over a year now.
All I'm saying is, I understand why you guys might say that relationships suck and you want nothing to do with them, but that's because you haven't met the girl that likes you for you. I was honestly the exact same way as you. I'm a changed man now.
The cons of losing a relationship after many years outweigh the benefits of being in one. Which is why I think it's pointless to bother with any more. I would rather never be in a relationship than have to deal with some of the bad things that come with them.
(me and Ben are going on geordie shore anyway)