You don't always need to listen to tutorials when they say "you should be ~x seconds" and stuff like that. I think the main reason they say that is because usually it helps understanding if you have more experience and it is possible to get that fast without their information. But if you understand the tutorials then there is no reason to not start applying the tricks right away. Start with Badmephisto's videos on youtube.
As for fingertricks, they are "hand"-y, but you will find that they come naturally after a while as you practice. Be patient. You will get there. Enjoy the process.