I think it's about time I get myself to a competition!
That would be cool, it's been a while since VA Open 08. Maybe CMU Fall?
I feel like my cubing story is really unique, yet very similar to yours. I started learning to cube via Dan Brown's videos not too long after you (January 6, 2008), and became immersed in the cubing community not too long after. As much as getting sub-20 on 3x3 was a huge goal for me, I really enjoyed the friends I made along the way, and the places I went to see all for a cube. Eventually, my will to practice just wore off.
As I entered college, I made friends, and friends became a lot closer to me than they ever were. I prioritized trying to make friends that were close to me than ones that were really far away, this included high school friends and cuber friends. On top of that, Michigan is hard. As a result, my will to practice faded, and I spent minimal time solving a cube. I would take it out a bit, show to friends, keep up with the latest in cubing news/records, but never really had the time or will to go to a competition again.
While I was doing an REU at Mount Holyoke, I met a guy at one of the professor's dinner parties that had a stickerless GuHong v2. I was absolutely amazed at how much cubing technology improved in three years, and I had to order one. I was able to get back to sub-20 times very quickly with that cube, but I realized that was probably worse than my old times on a good ol' Type F in early 2009. Either way, my spark for cubing was slowly coming back.
Then, my senior year, I met my current girlfriend, Lauren. Before we began to date, she googled my name and found my WCA profile, and asked what that was all about. I taught her how to solve a cube right around when we started dating, and she was interested to see what was up with all the competitions I had been to. So it's been a strange come-and-go story, but I'm back to cubing now, and it's amazing to me how quickly I felt welcomed back by the community. It's weird to say this, but had I not met her, I might not have run two competitions in Ann Arbor this year, let alone be making this post right now.
I think the main point I'm trying to make here is that cubing has me (among many of us!) on some really strange journeys, and whether or not the cubing community as a whole has changed drastically since we started, that shouldn't matter, because all of us are constantly changing on our own journeys of life. The cube and cubers are always there, and for those that became so immersed in cubing, many will never completely walk away from it.