Don't be discouraged, just enjoy yourself.
As an working adult with kid to take care of,
even weekend could be too busy to even have 5 solves.
I think "3 months", "1 year" or "3 years" of cubing do not provide meaningful information, sometime even "1k", "5k", "20k" solves are not meaningful either, as mindless solving only improve your recognition & TPS and only to certain point you can improve these.
I use Roux, my improvement by doing solves is very much stagnant now. Doing solves does not help, learning to do things more efficiently does, or I would say that's the most "helpful" thing I/you can do.
To be more efficient, I need to improve even more on my recognition, and I can picture myself being better at recognition and more efficient, that's gonna make my solves faster, and give me more time to track or lookahead. And with less pauses, my time can be improved, and to a certain point, I will be confident enough to slowly increase my turning speed.
All these will make a solve faster, less fatiguing, with give you more time/energy to solve/practice per session. Picture yourself in such progress too, dont care about those insanely fast kids or others, but don't just solve blindly. You can, and you will improve.
Don't be discouraged, just enjoy yourself.