For a white cube some people prefer the "white cube replacement set" which gives you black stickers instead of white. Personally i think this looks better but it terms of recognition can mess with your times if you are used to a white opposite yellow scheme.
For the other sets its really all about your preference.
While i don't actually own a set of fluorescent stickers im reasonably sure they don't glow in the dark.
ok um well for my cubes i use white oppisit black sooooo i get the white cube replacement set and just put black were the yellow should be. and floresent is better on black cube imo
edit: i forgot to mention that this is what i do for white cubes, for black cubes i remove yellow