Hi guys! All of a sudden I realized (to be more precise somebody has made me realize) I'm spending way too much time cubing, basically ALL my spare time. And that's not a good sign. I have been obsessed with getting faster at this or that event, to the point that if I'm in the middle of a timed solve, my wife and son have developed the habit of avoiding any disturbance, which is frustrating for them. That's not good either.
I think it's time for me to take this hobby much less seriously. I don't want to forget how to solve but I don't want to be upset if I do not improve or if I can't find time to practice or whatever...
So if you start to see me around here much less frequently, if at all, now you know why. And if anybody has the time to take over the Race to sub-15 thread they will be welcome as I don't think I can keep running that either.
Happy cubing and I'lll see you around... from time to time.
That is just the life of us older cubers.
I have been cubing for three years now.
I was in College. I quit during year 1 and 2 exam periods for roughly 2 months-ish each time with Zero solving.
Then July to December 2016, I didn't touch any big cubes or side event,just played around with 3x3x3, and I didn't have more than 500 solves for that half a year.
Every time I came back I had a renewed passion for it personally.
The 6 month of casual to no solving sucked the most.
I forgot so much. I had to relearn sq-1 and Mega LL algs. The worst was I knew 2GLL,H, Pi and was into AS when I stopped hardcore solving. I forgot most of it except H and most 2GLL.
Try doing an Ao-50 once every other day max or something when family is asleep and whatnot.
What really helped me focus on my wife and kids was not bringing a cube with me when we went out.
Now I mostly solve on lunch break at work and after 8pm on weekdays. I barely cube on weekends now.
I have missed a ton of comps and am not going to NATs anymore but I feel less stressed about trying to improve
I have still been improving(Although, I only solve 333, OH, 3BLD, FMC now), I don't think about cubing 24/7 any more but I still look forward to sitting down and solving, and I have relearned most of ZBLL again.
I am basically done, I just have to practice/drill algs, do some Ao100s for algs, and I am done.
I was able to find a happy balance and still go places with cubing.
I hope you figure out what you need.
Enjoy your time with your family and cube when you can. Good luck and hope to see you posting often still.