I think I disagree. The feeling between N35 and N38 is very significant compared to N38 and N40/N42.
I magnetized my YLM6 with N38 4x1.5 and N38 4x1 and it came out phenomenal. The strength feels similar to what the AoShi GTS or Shadow has, maybe even a tad stronger. The problem is that obtaining true N38 magnets is expensive and not the inaccurate ones you find on eBay (if I recall, the total amount of magnets that went into my YLM6 ended up costing around $15).
@S.S.STAR Sorry to hear all your hard work ended up sucking. I honestly hate N35 for a lot of hardware. I hope you don't get too discouraged in trying other things in the future, though.
But yeah, I understand if looking at a magnet calculator is all you can get for an idea when choosing magnets, but even that can be massively misleading. Honestly, your best bet is either through trial by error or discussion either here or in the Cubers Discord's hardware channel.
Thanks for being a cautionary tale for others, at least!