TimMc
Premium Member
my mum is like, scared that strangers will rape/kill either me/sister/my bros 19, but she's still scared for him too. everything she sees on the news, she thinks happens to everyone.
Yeah, it's fair enough. I wouldn't recommend that a child or young teenager go on their own to a competition or meetup due to the possibility of encountering some crazy/twisted person on the way to the venue. At the very least, they'd need a trusted adult to be supervising them after being dropped off.
It's better to be up front and honest about these things with your parents. Later on, when your old enough to: vote, buy a car, buy a house etc, you'll be able to make such decisions about safety yourself.
If the competition date/time/venue is inconvenient for them then you could always ask if you can come along to another one (i.e. the official one) - hopefully with a month or two notice. If they don't want you cubing - period - as studies are being affected, then so be it. You can resume cubing after completing your education. I only picked up cubing after finishing high school
Tim.