sellingseals
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- Sep 30, 2013
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I have defended CBC a lot in this forum since my time here, in fact it was people hating on him so much that made me decide to make an account. He's personally asked me to stop it, but I find it difficult because I know him in real life, we live in the same city. He is not like he is on the internet in real life, he's expressed to me his faults as he's done in a video explaining why he's disabled his social networking sites. He's actually making an effort, yet every time he's talked about here it's a negative way. He's clearly trying to make an effort, even if he has to remove himself from the community for a while to learn to do so. CBC has admitted his wrongs, why he's done it, the problems it's made etc etc.
He wants to come back to the community at some point, but how is he supposed to do that when people won't even say anything nice about the fact that he doesn't feel good about his behaviour and is actually trying to change his behaviour. Even in his recent videos he's talked about how he's not the best reviewer, not the fastest speed cuber and stuff. Sounds like he's becoming more humble in his position here and losing the ego slowly.
I know he reads here and will probably ask me to remove this post. In the meantime, why don't we say something nice about him, not negative stuff. I'm sure he's heard all the negativity before, no need in pointing it out again and again. I read that people want him to be better, so let's show him we can accept it too. Let's encourage him to want to be better, not just for him but for us too so when he comes back he might have something of a welcome back and start again. He's told me when/if he comes back he is starting fresh with everybody in a better mind frame and a good apology and if people want to continue being mean to him after that then it's their problem from then on.
So let's say something nice about him and help encourage him, instead of making it worse and worse all the time.
He wants to come back to the community at some point, but how is he supposed to do that when people won't even say anything nice about the fact that he doesn't feel good about his behaviour and is actually trying to change his behaviour. Even in his recent videos he's talked about how he's not the best reviewer, not the fastest speed cuber and stuff. Sounds like he's becoming more humble in his position here and losing the ego slowly.
I know he reads here and will probably ask me to remove this post. In the meantime, why don't we say something nice about him, not negative stuff. I'm sure he's heard all the negativity before, no need in pointing it out again and again. I read that people want him to be better, so let's show him we can accept it too. Let's encourage him to want to be better, not just for him but for us too so when he comes back he might have something of a welcome back and start again. He's told me when/if he comes back he is starting fresh with everybody in a better mind frame and a good apology and if people want to continue being mean to him after that then it's their problem from then on.
So let's say something nice about him and help encourage him, instead of making it worse and worse all the time.
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