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you've called me a 'spoiler 11 year old' because i have a gan 11 m pro and at the time averaged 40 seconds, which in this thread was a thread where i clearly mentioned i was turning older (which will be important in a minute,) you also today you said : ""dO yOu stILl rEmeMbeR mE?" How about "I'm so glad you're back" goofy ahh 11 year old." which was fair criticism in a aggressive format,

and yes the way i worded my post in this thread was not considerate you still didn't need to make it into a insult, you then later changed it to "This was edited from an obnoxious insult into just saying that I am now going to shut up." so you edited it from a insult to a insult,

you also called me a 11 year old instead of 12 which would usually mean nothing important, but in the thread i asked for info for some cubes, you responded, and if your giving advice you should read the whole post and understand it before replying.

and in conclusion most of the things you send responding to me are just passive aggressive, i am now overly tense over nothing and need to calm the hell down, so have a good day, (if you respond with something aggressive or defence which i don't believe to be substantial then i am not going to waste me time replying) also sorry if this counts as spamming,

Trying not to be rude but i had a hard time unserstanding this because of the way it was worded/grammar

My fault mate, I guess I'm accustomed to talking pretty harshly to others, 4 years of Reddit and Discord kinda do that to you. Maybe I'm that guy, I don't want to be rude like that.

Look mate, I have nothing against you, it's just become a bit of a habit to poke fun at others. Most of the time, people like me who spend a lot of time on some slightly more toxic environments like some Discord or Reddit spaces brings you to laugh it all off, but I understand why you may feel offended. As I said, I have nothing against you or anyone here on the forums.

(Except maybe that old guy who wants to solve a 4x4 but refuses to watch a single tutorial.) Also, I will not engage in my usual grammar-sharking activity today.

Also, ""This was edited from an obnoxious insult into just saying that I am now going to shut up" was meant in the connotation that I was the person saying the obnoxious insult and that I would not leave that there, as opposed to targeting you out. I understand how it could be misconstrued in that manner.

I have no stance on this, because I believe both sides are valid. Just stating for the record.

I'm gonna try to do my best to not sound like a karen but no promises:
Using an excuse based around you being used to being rude is just overall really crappy. To me that means that you always act that way (including irl), and are just a really rude person. I can't really tell if you actually apologized or if you just said you understand that he is offended.

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But @n0nco could have just pmed you about this and probably didn't need to make a public post criticizing you like this, even if it is (I don't know if it is).

I haven't been active enough on the forums to know everything about this, and I'm just going off of your posts here.

It makes sense. I need to watch what I say more and be more aware of the context. To be completely fair, I tend to be very unaware of contextual cues that mean I should stop. I understand that others are already very patient with me, and I need to be more aware. I totally understand what you're saying. And hey, if you think you sound like a Karen, that means you're calling me out directly, which I honestly respect.

Also, respecting @n0nco , they are she/her.