Started happening to you? It only affects you if you allow it to affect you, whatever it is that is affecting you. You are the only person that controls how you react, or how aggravated you get. When people get mad, it's because they are letting something bother them, it's not somebody else's fault when you or I or anybody decides to get mad, or react a certain way. We don't have to react that way, we just choose to, and it's our own faults. I'm guilty of this from time to time, feeling something and blaming others, but when I actually realize what's going on, things just don't bother me anymore. Somebody wants to try and tick me off? Ok, I don't have to get mad, I'll just sit back and be where I was before that person came along and let that person make themselves look like a fool trying. What I'm seeing more and more here, is people blaming everything but themselves for being annoyed or pissed off. It's nobody's fault but their own. I'm told this site is full of younger people, and I'm an older(ish) person, so I understand we're not all the same. Get used to it? No thanks, I'll sit back and watch people until it get's to be too much and I leave. Every person that get's involved in the negativity is contributing to it, and they are all mad at it for some reason without looking at where the majority is coming from.
Just did two Ao5's: Weisu 3.04 ShenShou 2.34
