Have I gained my Trust Back?

[JDAW6]

As you guys know I used to cheat my solves and I how childish it is. It really was bad how I used to cheat but now I don’t. I put up a poll to see if I am back into the community’s trust. Btw, I am not sure if this is the correct sub forum to put this in.

 

[siwoo]

i dont think its that deep dude

 

[TheSpeedSkewber]

The thing is

The amount of times youve cheated, then said i won't do it again, are so great that its gonna take at least a year for me to trust you

 

[VincentCuber]

you can, but it will take a long time

 

[Skewby_Doo]

I didn't vote because I am relatively new myself, and also had a few faked solves(resolved). I am still getting to know everyone so I do not think I am able to give a definite answer yet. (I might in the future if the poll is open)

 

[grex]

As you guys know I used to cheat my solves and I how childish it is. It really was bad how I used to cheat but now I don’t. I put up a poll to see if I am back into the community’s trust. Btw, I am not sure if this is the correct sub forum to put this in.

dont worry i used to cheat as well but not anymore
we all learn from our mistakes

 

[Garf]

Nope, but having integrity in yourself is how you show that you are responsible in accepting mistakes will show trust, and then other people will start trusting you.
Words don't mean crap. But actions show better than words.
Start by saying "I know I f-ed up in these actions, but by performing these certain actions, they will counteract these original bad actions and I will do whatever it takes to not do it again."

 

[CoderGuru]

Nope, but having integrity in yourself is how you show that you are responsible in accepting mistakes will show trust, and then other people will start trusting you.
Words don't mean crap. But actions show better than words.
Start by saying "I know I f-ed up in these actions, but by performing these certain actions, they will counteract these original bad actions and I will do whatever it takes to not do it again."

The biggest problem imo was the denial and delaying your apology. Cheating is one thing, but trying to flex fake scores, not admitting for a while, etc. is what ultimately made it worse

 

[Garf]

The biggest problem imo was the denial and delaying your apology. Cheating is one thing, but trying to flex fake scores, not admitting for a while, etc. is what ultimately made it worse

Yeah, that's another big part. Apologizing is crucial in admitting that you messed up.
In running, I mentioned that you are going to have some off days that you need to push through. Well, it's the same for cubing. Just because you're getting bad solves left and right doesn't give a valid excuse to cheat. It only means that you do what you can do to make it work and then do something else, either work on a different event or take a break for the day to do some other stuff (like running! lol).

 

[1x1 wr holder!]

As you guys know I used to cheat my solves and I how childish it is. It really was bad how I used to cheat but now I don’t. I put up a poll to see if I am back into the community’s trust. Btw, I am not sure if this is the correct sub forum to put this in.

Listen @JDAW6, no one wants to think of you as a cheater, it's just that you were one for a time. And after you tried to patch off the leaks, I bet that we were all happy to see it so. We're not these evil people that are going to pick on you for the rest of your life because you cheated, we look for the good and build from that, one layer at a time. On this subject of layers, we're at layer one and we ain't gonna use f2l. trust is a tricky subject that is either kept or uterally destroyed, and you're in the position to actually be able to pick up the pieces and move on. One more thing, you don't need to make a scene asking everyone if they trust you, because that shows you don't trust yourself. Slow down, ask yourself if your deserving of trust, and go from there. If yes, then great. If no, then lay low. People aren't going to waste their time being all "you cheated, he cheated, can't believe he cheated." And you can't be like that to yourself. And like @Garf said, actions speak louder than words. gonna let you figure that one out.

 

[siwoo]

Listen @JDAW6, no one wants to think of you as a cheater, it's just that you were one for a time. And after you tried to patch off the leaks, I bet that we were all happy to see it so. We're not these evil people that are going to pick on you for the rest of your life because you cheated, we look for the good and build from that, one layer at a time. On this subject of layers, we're at layer one and we ain't gonna use f2l. trust is a tricky subject that is either kept or uterally destroyed, and you're in the position to actually be able to pick up the pieces and move on. One more thing, you don't need to make a scene asking everyone if they trust you, because that shows you don't trust yourself. Slow down, ask yourself if your deserving of trust, and go from there. If yes, then great. If no, then lay low. People aren't going to waste their time being all "you cheated, he cheated, can't believe he cheated." And you can't be like that to yourself. And like @Garf said, actions speak louder than words. gonna let you figure that one out.wha

Listen @JDAW6, no one wants to think of you as a cheater, it's just that you were one for a time. And after you tried to patch off the leaks, I bet that we were all happy to see it so. We're not these evil people that are going to pick on you for the rest of your life because you cheated, we look for the good and build from that, one layer at a time. On this subject of layers, we're at layer one and we ain't gonna use f2l. trust is a tricky subject that is either kept or uterally destroyed, and you're in the position to actually be able to pick up the pieces and move on. One more thing, you don't need to make a scene asking everyone if they trust you, because that shows you don't trust yourself. Slow down, ask yourself if your deserving of trust, and go from there. If yes, then great. If no, then lay low. People aren't going to waste their time being all "you cheated, he cheated, can't believe he cheated." And you can't be like that to yourself. And like @Garf said, actions speak louder than words. gonna let you figure that one out.

f2l skip

 

[Bingus Ringus McDingus]

 

[Bingus Ringus McDingus]

bro voted for himself, on god bro just be like that

 

[VincentCuber]

As you guys know I used to cheat my solves and I how childish it is. It really was bad how I used to cheat but now I don’t. I put up a poll to see if I am back into the community’s trust. Btw, I am not sure if this is the correct sub forum to put this in.

Another thing is we said you were cheating back in April, you said ok and started new sessions, then proceeded to say that you cheated again. This cycle has been going on so long that it is hard to not think that your current times are cheated.

 

[Gecko777]

As you guys know I used to cheat my solves and I how childish it is. It really was bad how I used to cheat but now I don’t. I put up a poll to see if I am back into the community’s trust. Btw, I am not sure if this is the correct sub forum to put this in.

Yeah it should be In off topic. It’s fine that you cheated in pyra, just try too shake off the habit

 

[Cuban_Cuber]

To be completely honest, I don't think it was as bad as some of you guys are making it out to be

 

[JDAW6]

Ok I have read this, now what should I do to get your trust back?

 

[1x1 wr holder!]

Ok I have read this, now what should I do to get your trust back?

That is not how trust works man. While trust is earned, we...no one...can tell you what to do to earn it. Listen to your heart. You're not a robot who needs a command for every single thing. You need to check yourself, regulate yourself, and make sure you think before you do things. If we told you what to do, then you'd just fake it till you make it based off of your track record. Real trust is gained through actions that are unable to be explained through words. It's when your name isn't just a name anymore, it's a title that tells people you work hard to make others trust you. You are the only one who can help YOU.
While I can't tell you what to do, I can tell you what not to do:
don't try too hard, don't try to make enemies, don't be a show-off, don't exaggerate.

 

[Gecko777]

Ok I have read this, now what should I do to get your trust back?

dont fake your solves ever again. and change your pfp to a poop emoji for a week.

 

[JDAW6]

dont fake your solves ever again. and change your pfp to a poop emoji for a week.

first part is good but hahahhahaha total real laughter to the second part.